Setting boundaries
I made it clear that it wasn't about throwing endless lifelines. "I'll give you advice, but I have boundaries now," I said firmly, setting the tone. Jack needed to understand that the time for giving in was over for me. The need to keep my own peace was clearer than ever. Helping didn't mean sacrificing my sanity. He listened and absorbed every word. Boundaries were not walls, but my new, conscious way of engaging.
Setting boundaries
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Emotional confrontation
Then my mother called, her words overwhelmed with emotion. "Why are you doing this to us?" she pleaded, her voice a mixture of frustration and despair. The call hit me like a tidal wave, Mom's words swirling with a forceful jolt. "We were just trying to hold it all together," she added, trying to sway my resolve. But this was more than an emotional outburst - it was a moment that demanded clarity.
Emotional confrontation

